Anger, it gets the best of all of us. The way we handle it is what matters. If we handle it in a negative way then we can potentially hurt those around us. However if we handle it in a positive way it will be beneficial for not only ourselves but those around us as well. Anger is a difficult emotion to try to handle on your own, and can sometimes fester from other emotions not being worked on. All emotions are important, all emotions need to be worked on, and talked about. However anger is the root of all evils.
You can point out the anger to others and sometimes they will even deny it. They deny being hateful, they deny the angry tone that was being used. Though it can only be denied so many times before it becomes a pattern. Patterns become recognizable, once it gets to that point you don’t realize the emotional damage that you have actually put on the other person. The other person will do their best not to show it, to save the peace because they treasure the good days that they do get. Though they know deep down the bad days will be back.
They learn your stressors so that they can try to minimize them, keep them from happening, or handle them before they can ever even make their way to you. However sometimes they aren’t fast enough, or they are struggling themselves, or life just happens and they take the blunt end. At the end they say that it is okay, again because they treasure the good days more than they treasure the bad days. They don’t know how to do anything other than that.
Those around you never know how to help you when you are going through this spell. This is something that they never plan to actually go through or to have to even go through. Nobody knows how to handle things that are different then their own normal. However they adapt to it so that they don’t lose the good days.
I started writing this blog yesterday but I just finished it today. I am not sure how this actually sounds, but it was something that I felt like writing about. I hope you at least enjoyed reading it. Thank You guys! Love y’all, Alyssa Mills
